This is a 'Transthenticity' preamble to the actual book, geared as a no-nonsense survival guide, identity-validator, and potential definer, on a basic level. This book is our kite, with a message on a string, to all transgenders, to assist them in where they really, and truly are, on a more realistic scale, as people, individuals, and beings who should get the acknowledgment for who they really are, which is people of mankind, and as much mankind as all that are mankind.
Many people are gonna have problems with any bit of information which doesn’t allow judgment or mistreatment of those they consider new kids on the block, that they would like to reduce, diminish, and peculiarize, just for being unique, highly intuitive, with possibly greater abilities than theirs. We’re very saddened by the lack of appreciation that other human beings, that we share this planet with, are exhibiting, and we’re just doing what we can to derail that. This book is sort of a quick put-together, and we wrote it in response to the what we believe is the manipulated death of a genuinely warm, decent and kind person. And realistically, the transgender members of our communities are members, and we hope others will pitch in and “nudge their neighbors to stop the nonsense”.
This book is written from a point of view that allows, hopefully, the transgender “hims” and “hers” to get a look around at the global school yard of society, to spot all the “mean girls” and “bullies” and the pressuring groups all around them. We’re basically at the lunch table saying “Take no mess from anyone”, because “You belong here, you matter, you count, and this world is yours as well.” Like any school yard, society is a place where you can lose yourself to fit in, roll with the bullies, keep your mouth shut and let other people be mistreated, become the bullies, or you can decide what to be part of that’s actually worth your time. Most people on the school yard make the big mistake of fitting in, and in the end, they’re successful as followers, only to grow up to become like the idiots that bullied them back in their past. All transgenders, like everybody else, have the same option, to become like “everybody else”. If that comforts you, then enjoy it, and if fitting in and being like everybody else is all you want, you don’t need our help for that, and this book is not for you.
But if you want to see what narrations and descriptions of what comparatively in society makes you contrastingly special, and want to see what your special attributes can be applied to, and if you want to be more than somebody’s servant or hidden sex-object, you’ll have to develop your intuitive self-esteem. And that requires you to know pretty much what you are, and how that translates into who you can become. Expecting people to be able to process and accept you, as you, when they can’t grasp you beyond the physical, even when you’re alive right in front of them, is insanity in itself. How can they know you if they don’t know themselves? And if all they know of themselves is what others have judged them to be, how can you be mad when they judge you too? You can, but what a waste of energy.
We’ve put together sort of a mental multivitamin, that goes beyond simple intelligence, based more on science and technology. Feel free to fact check, analyze and question everything as much as you can. Use your more intuitive abilities to see beyond the thinking process, and remember that many intuitive people, that do possess warmth, are mean because they are puppeted to be that way.
We’re not gonna tell you sweet words to make you feel good. We are not built that way. They say you can give someone a fish, and they’ll eat now, or you can teach them how to fish themselves, and they’ll eat forever. This is about self-management, and a mindset of self-development, to develop in-depth self-management skills.
So, welcome to ‘Transthenticity: The Preamble’, and prepare to become much more aware.
